Officially, there are less than 4 months left before we say “I DO.” Wow!
I’ve finished writing my vows, he still needs to finish his. I’ll be putting the rest of the ceremony together so I can send a copy of it to our officiant to make sure it is okay. (We don’t want the ceremony to be longer than 20 minutes.) So we’re on the same page he’s read my vows, but he wants to surprise me with his–no problem, I just reminded him that we at least needed to be in the same chapter where the vows are concerned, even if we’re not on the same page…He laughed. I was serious. I’d rather we were on the same page, but we’re so different, yet similar that all I can do here is explain and then have faith, which I’ve done and do.
We have yet to get the supplies to make the invitations, I don’t think he realizes we really need to get the ball rolling on this, but he’s a procrastinator so I guess I’ll have to get on the ball (we’re supposed to be doing the invitations together though). I’m thinking a trip to Michael’s on Sunday is in our future.
I found the perfect tea light candle holders and am getting them this weekend, and they are only $1 each, and all I need are about 12, so that wont cost much at all. I don’t want busy centerpieces, I want simple and romantic and fun, but I’ll need to find something to go along with the candle holders.
I need to figure out what the hell I’m doing in regard to flowers. The flowers are going to be a DIY thing, with the help of my aunt, but I haven’t worked out all the details yet.
And, ummm, let’s see…I need to lose at least 25 pounds. I’m not sure that is going to happen but I’m working on it.
We need to figure out what the hell we’re doing about the rehearsal dinner. Ummm, have no real clue about this one.
I need to figure out what gifts we’re getting our wedding party, and now we need to figure out what we’re going to do about a member of the wedding party who either doesn’t like me, or doesn’t think we should be getting married, or both, or something entirely different–this has yet to be determined since they are not speaking right now (drama, drama, drama…I hate drama but there isn’t anything I can do, this is his call.)
The beginning of the dress alterations starts in about 2 weeks…YAY!!! (Maybe I’ll be able to at least lose a few pounds between now and then.